There are many personality traits that are helpful for a mediator...including a compassionate nature, patience, understanding, perserverance, and also a sense of humor. To that end, please enjoy my mediation parody involving Santa Claus. The following is Scene 1 of 3.
Merry Christmas :)
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Mediation as an Alternative to Pension Litigation
Feb 6, 2014 by
Last Friday news broke that federal court mediators helped broker a settlement deal between retired workers and the city of Detroit regarding planned changes to the retiree healthcare.
Here in Illinois there have been recent lawsuits regarding retiree health insurance premiums. Just last week multiple lawsuits were filed regarding plans to cut pensions.
Instead of firing verbal shots, pouring resources into litigation and inventing cartoon characters (I'm looking at you Squeezy), perhaps t...
Here in Illinois there have been recent lawsuits regarding retiree health insurance premiums. Just last week multiple lawsuits were filed regarding plans to cut pensions.
Instead of firing verbal shots, pouring resources into litigation and inventing cartoon characters (I'm looking at you Squeezy), perhaps t...
Five Life Lessons From Mediation
Feb 3, 2014 by
Winter is a great time to reflect on the the previous year and contemplate moving forward. The more experience I have gained mediating, the more I have seen the value in using those skills in my everyday life. The top five life lessons I have learned from mediation are as follows:
1. Take time to listen. Most people want to feel heard. When they don't feel like they are being heard, they often become louder and angrier. They may even file a lawsuit as a way of forcing the other per...
Holiday Mediation Humor, Part 2 & 3
Dec 8, 2013 by
When we last saw Santa and Ms. Holly Jolly at mediation, Ms. Jolly had started to state her needs and interests. In Scene 2 Santa gets to tell his side. I hope you enjoy Scene 2 of 3 - Santa Mediation :)
Please enjoy the conclusion: Scene 3 of 3.
Please enjoy the conclusion: Scene 3 of 3.
Holiday Mediation Humor
Dec 3, 2013 by
The People's Court Makes Mediation More Confusing
Nov 24, 2013 by
There is still quite a bit of confusion about what mediation is and what mediators do. Part of the problem is that mediation is not yet a regulated industry. Some people expect mediators to deliver decisions King Solomon style.
Recently I was shocked and annoyed to find out that the proceedings on popular "reality" court TV shows were being billed as mediation. The website for The People's Court specifically describes itself as drawing "on ordinary people who have filed grievances in ...
Recently I was shocked and annoyed to find out that the proceedings on popular "reality" court TV shows were being billed as mediation. The website for The People's Court specifically describes itself as drawing "on ordinary people who have filed grievances in ...
Cyberweek - - FREE Conference on Online Dispute Resolution
Nov 3, 2013 by
You may have read my thoughts about online dispute resolution in previous blog entries. Now here's your chance to learn more for free. The Werner Institute is hosting a free online virtual conference November 4-8. Click here to learn more.
Mediation Services for Landlords & Tenants
Oct 23, 2013 by
Lately I have been encountering a number of landlord-tenant cases while mediating at the Circuit Court of Cook County. Mediation can be particularly useful in situations where the people involved have an ongoing relationship. If a tenant wants to stay at their apartment, he or she will have to continue to deal with the landlord. The same is true when a landlord wants to keep a tenant. If the parties want to avoid litigation, mediation might be the answer. Mediation can also be used in si...